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How Strong Is Your Marriage?

For the last 25 years, Dr. John Gottman of the Family Research Lab at the University of Washington, has been studying what he calls the "masters and disasters" of marriage. He measures heart rate, observes facial expression, and evaluates how couples talk about their marriage. Based on Gottman's predictions, he designed a free marriage quiz that is designed to provide you with marriage quiz results that will be applicable to your marriage.

Gottman is able to predict with 90 percent accuracy which couples will make it, and which will not.

Test the strength of your marriage by taking this 22-question relationship quiz developed by Dr. Gottman.

I can name my partner's best friends.

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no


I can tell you what stresses my partner is currently facing.

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no


I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating my partner lately.

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I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams.

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I can tell you about my partner's basic philosophy of life.

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I can list the relatives my partner likes the least.

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I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.

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When we are apart, I often think fondly of my partner.

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I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.

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My partner really respects me.

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There is fire and passion in this relationship.

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Romance is definitely still part of our relationship.

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My partner appreciates the things I do in this relationship.

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My partner generally likes my personality.

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Our sex life is mostly satisfying.

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At the end of the day my partner is glad to see me.

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My partner is one of my best friends.

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We just love talking to each other.

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There is lots of give and take (both people have influence) in our discussions.

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My partner listens respectfully, even when we disagree

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My partner is usually a great help as a problem solver.

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We generally mesh well on basic values and goals in life.

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no



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