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10 Ways to Overcome Sexual Insecurity

        Health | Sexuality

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Get Your Head Straight
Want to drive your partner wild? Put down that magazine and do your own one-on-one research.
Want to drive your partner wild? Put down that magazine and do your own one-on-one research.
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Is your goal to be the best at sex? You might want to find a new goal. One, because that award does not exist outside the porn industry, and two, because there is no right or best way to do it -- different people like different things.

It's like a dirty nursery rhyme -- some like it fast, some like it slow, some like it hard and some like it not so.

Regardless of what magazines may try to sell you, there is no one trick that will drive him or her wild. Well, there might be, but you're going to have to find that one out from the one you're with.

The best sex happens when you lose yourself in the moment. So instead of striving for first place in a competition that's only in your head, work toward finding someone who makes you tingly.


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