How to Celebrate Your Baby's First Tooth

Baby's got a tooth. How will you celebrate it?
Baby's got a tooth. How will you celebrate it?
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Babies have more achievements in a year than the average adult probably has in a decade. Even the most ambitious of us can barely live up to the famous firsts of infancy -- walking, talking and, of course, teething. While your baby's initial steps and words may one day be commemorated on video, how will you celebrate the less sensational sign of advancement: the first tooth?

Well, at first you may think there's nothing to rejoice about. After all, there can be a bit of pain for your child when his or her teeth start breaking through. And as a parent, you'll have to endure bouts of inconsolable crying on your baby's part. Despite such concerns, a first tooth can still be a cause for celebration. And, in fact, many cultures throughout history have had traditions associated with the event.

It's believed that early Christians in Northern European countries like Finland and Estonia would wait until after a child's first tooth appeared to have him or her baptized. In such cases, the baby was given "tooth money" after the baptism. The ancient Scandinavians (and Germans) were also known to tie the fang of a wolf or boar around a teething baby's neck to encourage the growth of strong, healthy teeth [source: Vassiljeva].

A long-standing tradition in Armenian communities is for a mother to prepare a special wheat dish at the sign of her baby's first tooth. The child's head is then covered with a scarf and the mixture is sprinkled over top. The ceremony continues with five items being placed in front of the baby. Whichever item he or she touches first is supposed to indicate his or her future career path. For example, a baby who picks a hammer will be a builder. One who selects money will have a career in banking or finance [source: The American Folklife Center].

Ironically, many cultures celebrate a child's first tooth by consuming dental enemies -- sweets. An old Jewish folk tradition had parents showering the baby's head with candy [source: Bronner]. Whereas in Syria and Lebanon, families would treat themselves to sugarcoated almonds when a child's first tooth erupted [source: Ham].

If you don't have a cultural tradition to follow, consider starting a custom of your own. Simple celebrations can include a special family dinner, snapping a photo of the new tooth to share with friends and family, or journaling about the day your child's tooth first showed up.

You may be celebrating your child's first tooth now, but in a few years, you'll want to commemorate it once it comes out. Keep reading to learn how.

Commemorating Your Baby's First Tooth

We may think of baby teeth as being in the mouth one day and gone the next, but they actually live out quite a journey that starts even before the child is born. Tooth buds, the precursors to teeth, begin developing when the baby is still in the womb. And, in fact, one in 2,000 newborns will have a few already-developed baby teeth at birth [source: Baby Center]. Generally, though, teeth start surfacing when a baby is 3 to 12 months old. They usually start in the bottom-front of the mouth and begin working their way to a full set. Then, by about age 6, the permanent teeth are ready to slowly start pushing the baby ones out.

Keep an eye out for wiggly teeth during this age, because you'll probably want to hang onto your child's first tooth once it falls out. For starters, you'll need to leave it for the Tooth Fairy -- that is, unless you're from a European or Latin American country where a magical mouse steals the tooth overnight [source: McDonald, et. al].

What you do with the tooth once the mythological creatures give it back is up to you. You might want to make a special pocket in your scrapbook for it. Some parents have the tooth dipped in silver or gold in order to make it a necklace or key-ring pendant. If you prefer for it to have its own holding place, many jewelers sell specialty boxes for keeping a child's first tooth. Depending on your decorating taste, you can find these keepsake holders in anything from antique Limoges boxes to sterling silver (and just about everything in between). You can even find a corresponding case to contain a lock of hair from your baby's first haircut.

Of course, not everyone wants to commemorate their child's first tooth by keeping it. In the Middle Ages, it was popular to burn baby teeth in a fire. This had the rather macabre purpose of saving a person the trouble of having to search for their teeth in the afterlife. A more lighthearted custom still practiced by many cultures is that of throwing a baby tooth over or under the house [source: Beeler]. (Usually, teeth from the lower mouth are thrown above the house, and those from the top are thrown under.)

If you'd like to know more about family traditions or children's dental care, turn to the next page for lots more information.

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