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10 Ways to Spice up Your Sex Life After Baby

        Health | Sexuality

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Talk About Sex
The power of talking is not only for setting expectations but also for turning yourself and your partner on.
The power of talking is not only for setting expectations but also for turning yourself and your partner on.
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The first time out of the gate, talk it over with your partner. A huge piece of this is communication, and setting expectations -- yours and your partner's. It's not only helpful in making clear what you are and aren't yet comfortable with, mentally and physically, but such a discussion is also in itself an act of intimacy.

"Talk about the first time you're going to be intimate and decide what you're comfortable with. It may not be intercourse," says Holland.

What it might be is up to you -- and don't forget the power of talking not only for setting expectations but also for turning yourself and your partner on. Never underestimate what a naughty instant message or text message sent to your partner during the day can do to turn things up at night.

Did You Know?

According to a 2009 study by Trojan, the average American has sex 84 times a year.


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